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Insomnia- How to Fall Asleep When your Brain Won't Shut Up!
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If you are lying in bed trying to go to sleep, and find your mind racing, feeling anxious, what's the next best step to stop the anxiety cycle? -Jenny
You all know that feeling. I’ve been there, You’ve got a big day ahead, or you’ve had a long day behind you, you really need to sleep, you’re soooo tired, but when you finally lay down, your mind starts running, you worry about everything, or you can’t stop thinking about all the mistakes you made throughout the day.
You can feel your stress levels rise, and despite your best efforts, you can’t sleep. And that makes you more anxious, which perpetuates the cycle, and on it goes. You desperately want to sleep, but your brain won’t shut up. In this video you’ll learn why your brain doesn’t trust you to process these thoughts during the day. And, there is something you can do about this. So, let’s talk about the science behind why your brain gets stuck doing this, and 3 things you can do to escape that cycle:
1. Accept that trying to force yourself to not think about something backfires
2. Let your brain run the update
3. Gentle distraction in limited doses
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Therapy in a Nutshell and the information provided by Emma McAdam are solely intended for informational and entertainment purposes and are not a substitute for advice, diagnosis, or treatment regarding medical or mental health conditions. Although Emma McAdam is a licensed marriage and family therapist, the views expressed on this site or any related content should not be taken for medical or psychiatric advice. Always consult your physician before making any decisions related to your physical or mental health.
In therapy I use a combination of Acceptance and Commitment Therapy, Systems Theory, positive psychology, and a bio-psycho-social approach to treating mental illness and other challenges we all face in life. The ideas from my videos are frequently adapted from multiple sources. Many of them come from Acceptance and Commitment Therapy, especially the work of Steven Hayes, Jason Luoma, and Russ Harris. The sections on stress and the mind-body connection derive from the work of Stephen Porges (the Polyvagal theory), Peter Levine (Somatic Experiencing) Francine Shapiro (EMDR), and Bessel Van Der Kolk. I also rely heavily on the work of the Arbinger institute for my overall understanding of our ability to choose our life's direction.
And deeper than all of that, the Gospel of Jesus Christ orients my personal worldview and sense of security, peace, hope, and love www.churchofjesuschrist.org/comeuntochrist/believe
If you are in crisis, please contact the National Suicide Prevention Hotline at suicidepreventionlifeline.org/ or 1-800-273-TALK (8255) or your local emergency services.
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How to do Exposure Therapy for Fears and Anxiety - Break the Anxiety Cycle 27/30
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How to Deal with Uncertainty - Without Self-Sabotage
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Solving Actual Problems (Instead of Just Coping Skills) - Break the Anxiety Cycle 26/30
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How Menopause Impacts Anxiety, Depression, and Panic Attacks -
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Breathing Exercises for Anxiety - Break the Anxiety Cycle 25/30
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Mr. Beast Accidentally Teaches a Depression Skill - Behavioral Activation
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Sensory Needs Quiz- Your Sensory Needs Assessment - Autism and ADHD Sensory Processing Integration
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Exploring a Sensory Diet for Emotional Regulation - Sensory Processing Disorders
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My New Favorite Vagus Nerve Exercise for Anxiety or Trauma Recovery - The Voo Breath or Foghorn
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What to do with Anxiety in Your Body - Break the Anxiety Cycle 24/30
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Window of Tolerance -An Essential Skill for PTSD, Trauma and Nervous System Regulation
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Building an Internal Sense of Safety for PTSD, Trauma or Anxiety - 23/30 Break the Anxiety Cycle
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Building an Internal Sense of Safety for PTSD, Trauma or Anxiety - 23/30 Break the Anxiety Cycle
How to Stop Comparing Yourself to Others
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How to Stop Comparing Yourself to Others
How to Turn on The Parasympathetic Response to Calm Anxiety - 22/30
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How to Turn on The Parasympathetic Response to Calm Anxiety - 22/30
THIS guy solved Panic Attacks after 30 years of Panic Disorder
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THIS guy solved Panic Attacks after 30 years of Panic Disorder
The Essential Skill to Regulate Your Nervous System - Relaxed Vigilance vs. Hypervigilance 21/30
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The Essential Skill to Regulate Your Nervous System - Relaxed Vigilance vs. Hypervigilance 21/30
How to Stop Taking Things Personally
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How to Stop Taking Things Personally
Understanding Trauma, Anxiety and Burnout in your Nervous System - Break the Anxiety Cycle 20/30
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Understanding Trauma, Anxiety and Burnout in your Nervous System - Break the Anxiety Cycle 20/30
How to Flip Anxiety on Its Head With 2 Words - Break the Anxiety Cycle in 30 Days 19/20
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How to Flip Anxiety on Its Head With 2 Words - Break the Anxiety Cycle in 30 Days 19/20
How to treat Chronic Pain in the Brain, Body, and Nervous System
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How to treat Chronic Pain in the Brain, Body, and Nervous System
Emotional Reasoning- The Cognitive Distortion that makes you Emotionally Reactive - Anxiety 18/30
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Emotional Reasoning- The Cognitive Distortion that makes you Emotionally Reactive - Anxiety 18/30
How to Let Go of the Past - 3 Steps for Regret
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How to Let Go of the Past - 3 Steps for Regret
Stop Catastrophizing About Your Future. Try the Skill of Mental Imagery Instead
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Stop Catastrophizing About Your Future. Try the Skill of Mental Imagery Instead
ER Doctor Teaches How to Overcome Burnout from a Body-Based Perspective w Dr. Laura Hays, MD
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ER Doctor Teaches How to Overcome Burnout from a Body-Based Perspective w Dr. Laura Hays, MD
Why Your Brain Defaults to Scarcity and How to Flip it to Happiness - Anxiety Course 16/30
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Why Your Brain Defaults to Scarcity and How to Flip it to Happiness - Anxiety Course 16/30
The Second Most Essential Exercise for Managing Anxiety and Anxious Thoughts - Anxiety Course 15/30
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The Second Most Essential Exercise for Managing Anxiety and Anxious Thoughts - Anxiety Course 15/30
Crisis to Calm: 4 DBT Skills with Dr. Johnson
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Crisis to Calm: 4 DBT Skills with Dr. Johnson
How to Stop Worrying: The #1 Skill to Stop Anxiety & Master GAD 14/30
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How to Stop Worrying: The #1 Skill to Stop Anxiety & Master GAD 14/30
How to Stop Overthinking: Master the ACT Skill of Cognitive Defusion 13/30
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How to Stop Overthinking: Master the ACT Skill of Cognitive Defusion 13/30

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  • @georgeschlaline6057
    @georgeschlaline6057 26 хвилин тому

    Dr Sarah Clarke PHD

  • @georgeschlaline6057
    @georgeschlaline6057 28 хвилин тому

    It's 2024 no one has guilt anymore

  • @kimberliesiegel6221
    @kimberliesiegel6221 Годину тому

    It’s funny cause it’s true❤😂

  • @alexkip1510
    @alexkip1510 Годину тому

    Thanks!

  • @OlgaSettler
    @OlgaSettler Годину тому

    I have Adhs/anxiety and Trauma and i just started with 5 min(holy shit is heavy) 5min was like 15min...i was allways thinking(breathing in and out^^) and soon i hear something or my dog came..i needed to get back to breathing^^ i will try it..and give me best like i know it from the gym

  • @ShivaniSuri-tf1ve
    @ShivaniSuri-tf1ve Годину тому

    Ashwagandharishta from Planet Ayurveda has helped me manage my stress and anxiety. I feel much calmer now.

  • @thecatholiccorner
    @thecatholiccorner 2 години тому

    Times of anxiety is also time of prayer for myself. Not only can i give my worries to God, but I can pray about them and ask for His help. Once I start praying, especially my Rosary, I end up falling asleep. ❤

  • @bisounours1153
    @bisounours1153 2 години тому

    Could she have used currents to help her travel so far so fast?

  • @adilrehman9361
    @adilrehman9361 2 години тому

    one word dsr sgb

  • @deehuckleberry3999
    @deehuckleberry3999 3 години тому

    I have a question about NARM. I have cptsd, abuse amnesia/dissociation, anxiety, and depression. I've been in sessions for 2 months. My therapist starts out by asking what I want for myself, then has me talk about what I'm going through, with the pauses to sit with the feelings. Just when I am the most emotional and upset and at the topmost branch of the trauma tree, the session ends, he recaps what happened and it's over. I'm left with all the feelings and flooding and no way to get back down, no direction or guidance. Then I take a shower and nap, and am very sensitive and extra reliant on my service dog for a few days. Within a few hours I dissociate and forget details of the session. Is that how NARM is supposed to go?

  • @duffy666
    @duffy666 3 години тому

    These thoughts can be brutal. Thanks for the explanation.

  • @Wings91
    @Wings91 4 години тому

    Soooo helpful thank you.

  • @my_cutepiebabe7693
    @my_cutepiebabe7693 4 години тому

    Thank you Ma'am ❤️

  • @unique3301
    @unique3301 4 години тому

    Your videos are changing my life- I am so grateful for you! Thank you 🙏💐

  • @zbencz
    @zbencz 5 годин тому

    Great, thank you!

  • @user-zg8hc3in6y
    @user-zg8hc3in6y 5 годин тому

    Thank you for this video. Great advice and some excellent and helpful strategies. I really needed this conversation.

  • @BarneyR2
    @BarneyR2 5 годин тому

    This is an example of why people turn to medication rather than forking out for years of therapy

  • @priyankadhage3802
    @priyankadhage3802 6 годин тому

    The positive impact you have on people is immeasurable. You’re doing such a noble job by uploading these videos, helping so many, thank you from the bottom of my heart. ❤️

  • @3iu0wmxxpxyn8
    @3iu0wmxxpxyn8 6 годин тому

    Im not anxious in work, but at parties

  • @preetivyas7987
    @preetivyas7987 6 годин тому

    That was brilliant advice and wisdom! Thank you so much 🙏🏼 😊

  • @jjsmama401
    @jjsmama401 7 годин тому

    I wish I could find a therapist like you!

  • @Grace-ph5vm
    @Grace-ph5vm 8 годин тому

    How can you tell when someone is safe to talk to in person and not always through social media

  • @slaphappybullet
    @slaphappybullet 8 годин тому

    Thank you so much. Your videos have helped me a lot in the last six months, which has been the worst period of my life. Your informative, kind disposition has helped to bring hope that I’ll get through it all and see better days.

  • @gowtham7231
    @gowtham7231 9 годин тому

    I am watching this video while having morning anxiety. I am feeling shortness of breath, and taking deep breaths to manage that. I feel like my chest is compressed and it is really overwhelming. All this anxiety is because I am desperately looking for a job and I have to get a job within the next 2 months. But even though I feel this stressed I am lazy and procrastinate a lot which worsens this anxiety😢

  • @secrethealinghacks1913
    @secrethealinghacks1913 9 годин тому

    Respectfully, please do not post your birthdate publicly. It can be dangerous:

  • @nomoreillusions
    @nomoreillusions 9 годин тому

    Can I be calm doing a stressful thing!? Apparently I can't even be calm watching the 'stressful things' in this video 😬

  • @driver12177
    @driver12177 9 годин тому

    Why why is life like this, my past memory makes me feel SO bad about life and myself I really hope someone can reply to this and agree I don’t want to feel alone anymore, I want to tell my parents but I’m so scared. Life could be SO much better if I just talked about it to my mom I don’t know what to do 😢😢😢🥺🥺🥺😭😭😭

  • @dr.sarah.zaldivar
    @dr.sarah.zaldivar 9 годин тому

    Love it! Thank you!

  • @mylifeinthailand608
    @mylifeinthailand608 10 годин тому

    My goal is to calm my mind or to be less reactive

  • @provost5752
    @provost5752 11 годин тому

    No, it's anger

  • @ladyspellbreaker1313
    @ladyspellbreaker1313 12 годин тому

    I was diagnosed with cPTSD after my daughter Kaylah moved to Heaven in 2020. We were both wrongly diagnosed for many years with bipolar disorder after repeated abuse trauma. Thank you for sharing this.

  • @TiagoWolf
    @TiagoWolf 12 годин тому

    Wow amazing how specific foods like fast food spikes cortisol boosting the stress then subliminally making people eat more junk food to aliviate that stress hence eating emotionally

  • @bryannahuff2669
    @bryannahuff2669 12 годин тому

    When will the workbook be back in stock?

  • @RadicalRecovery1
    @RadicalRecovery1 13 годин тому

    Hi. Can I use this meditation in a class I am offering to students training in Peer Support?

  • @kathys5176
    @kathys5176 13 годин тому

    My PTSD alarm went off a few weeks back for the first time ever! I am almost 61yrs old. It is quite alarming! Trying to understand this has brought me to your channed❤ Thank you.

  • @cinthiaehrenborg9242
    @cinthiaehrenborg9242 13 годин тому

    fear of losing stuff, memory intrusion self care

  • @NEbluefire
    @NEbluefire 14 годин тому

    I don't know what anybody else is finding when they try or if this is just my city? Or just my country? But it sure is frustrating to me that the only therapist who seem to really have a grip on trauma for abuse victims are not actually accessible to me in their offices, only online it doesn't work this way. This is an avenue for disseminating information, but it can't go much further than that.

  • @brianbrenton1025
    @brianbrenton1025 14 годин тому

    We all are many people, depending on where we are, who we are with, what we are doing, or who we are trying to please.

  • @bobbibarrowman7372
    @bobbibarrowman7372 14 годин тому

    Lost my son in 2004 and my daughter passed last August of 23, now I’m losing my husband as well😢😢

  • @mildredhighcock7333
    @mildredhighcock7333 14 годин тому

    nicely put

  • @Chill-mm4pn
    @Chill-mm4pn 15 годин тому

    2:16 If I woke up when my ex girlfriend was sleeping I'd just go tend to our son even if I had work in five hours from that time. It's more so about doing what needs to be done. Even if it sucks. My problem is learning not to tackle too much at once.

  • @marcelacunha2944
    @marcelacunha2944 15 годин тому

    this is very useful, i've been searching for content on pelvic floor relaxation and i had no idea it was related to anxiety

  • @MJFleming-pp9dc
    @MJFleming-pp9dc 15 годин тому

    It's hard when it involves rude comments from family. :(

  • @erhanfindik254
    @erhanfindik254 15 годин тому

    "If you don't pass this test at school, you'll starve to death." That was my thoughts exactly. And you know what, it was a legitimate worry. Because, I've experienced a way too long unemployment period in the end. Imagine you think about that high school test you didn't do well, while getting rejections for jobs after uni...Amazing!.. Of course one test in high school wasn't the reason for longterm unemployment, but for me it all started with that one small anxiety, then kind of like the snowball effect, things got even worse later in life. So, avoid anything but medical and mental treatment.

  • @karenschindler2871
    @karenschindler2871 15 годин тому

    Comparison is fed by a scarcity mindset - golden.

  • @omarsarraf8521
    @omarsarraf8521 17 годин тому

    That’s why I can’t sleep am scared am scared of shadow and sleep paralysis thank you 👍

  • @seankenny941
    @seankenny941 17 годин тому

    I wanted to like this woman but the introduction to these subjects is dreadfully long. We all know about adrenaline and the flight or fight response. It's a shame really. I had flash backs jumping behind my eyes as I droned out from this.

  • @Creashone
    @Creashone 17 годин тому

    I LOVE the tone of your voice. So many mental health professionals use what they see as a soothing tone that I find fake and judgy. You sound real. Love it. Thank you.